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writes: Hi i'm 12 and i have a MAJOR problem.My ex-boyfriend who broke up with me last wednesday is a total nightmare!He hasn't talked to me or anything since he broke up with me,but has given my cellphone number out to a lot of people!!!So i did the same to him,but i don't think it helped out much.I think it might of even made the problem worse!Which REALLY isn't good.So i'm turning to you guys for some advice that will hopefully help me out a lot!And if you could also answer these questions that would be great too...1.What should i do to actually help this situation?2.Is this a sign my x wants to get back together or is jealous for some reason? THANKS FOR HELPING ME GUYS YOU REALLY ARE HELPING ME A LOT!!!
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (8 March 2006):
 what your ex did just shows how immature he really is, what did he think he was gonna achieve. the weird thing is he dumbed you so obvious he feels angry about something but what. you should ask him why he did that to you because giving your number out might only be the start. i dont believe he wishes to get back with you, i could be wrong but the question is would you really want to.
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (7 March 2006):
 No it is not a sign that he wants to get back together...it is a sign that his is a jerk who wanted to cause you trouble.
You did not help by playing his game.
Go to your parents and inform them of what has happened...taking responsibility for your own contribution to the situation. (especially if you are dealing with cell phones)
By giving your parents the heads up...you may still get in trouble...but not the world of trouble you will be in if a huge bill arrives without explaination.
Your parents can handle it...perhaps by speaking to his parents or changeing the number for you. Parents really DO love it when their kids trust them enough to ask for help. Don't be flippy or sulky...just say...I have gotten myself into something I don't know how to fix and I need your help...then explain as honestly as possible.
As far as the Boy....well...your better off seeing that he can be a real jerk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2006): Gosh, your 12? Bit of drama for a 12 year old!
Umm, I hate to say it but I think he just may be a bit immature! I don't know if he's 12 too, but he certainly sounds young. Even if he does want to get back with you, please do not take any notice. There are probably a lot of reasons: maybe jealousy, but probably just immaturity and not being able to handle break-ups. He is probably very upset and does not know what to do with himself.
I'm sure if you make sure that you don't play his silly games anymore, that you will be the one feeling good aboout yourself. None of the handing out numbers nonsense.. which you know is just a bit silly!
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