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writes: my boyfriend bought a truth game with his brother but doesnt want to play when i asked him. he said he doesnt like it and it gives wrong answers. but im starting to think he doesnt want me to know about something although hes answered all my bad questions like cheating, loving another, etc. should i urge him to play because im really curious as to what he might be hiding and im not afraid if him finding out anything. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, masquerade711 +, writes (19 August 2009):
First of all, it's a game. I hate games. If my boyfriend bought one I would refuse to play simply because in my opinion, there are better things I can do with my time.
Second of all, just because he doesn't want to play it with you doesn't mean he's hiding something. And really, if he doesn't like talking about his past, that should be fine with you. I don't like to talk about mine either. My boyfriend knows enough that he's comfortable with who I am and doesn't press me for additional details if I don't feel like giving them.
If there was something in my past that needed to be talked about, I would certainly tell him, because we're in a trusting relationship. I think you're being a bit paranoid, or overly suspicious. It's just a game. If he was covering something up he would agree to play and then just lie.
I really think he just doesn't like the game.
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