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writes:Hi everyone i was just wondering if any of you could tell me what to do. Me and my boyfriend want to have sex but we are really worrid about me bleeding cos if i do, we not sure how we can make sure my parents dont fine out.SO..... is there anyway i can make sure i dont bleed OR do u have any suggestions on how i can make sure it doesnt get on the sheets. Thanx in advance xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): blame it on your period come ON!
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reader, SeekingAdvise +, writes (24 August 2007):
SeekingAdvise is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you and because my boyfriend is older and had sex before we are fully aware of STD and pregnancy risks and trust me thats the last thing either of us need. After reading your advise i thought about it again and ive told him i need a bit longer. He's cool with it and said that its my choice. so thank you very much and even though we will have sex within the next few weeks probably at least i will be 100% sure its the right thing to do. Thanks again xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): Listen, first of all, just make sure you are entirely ready to have sex. I know way too many women who regret their sexual pasts. Don't do something you could end up regretting. You have to know that you are totally sure and ready to make this decision. That being said, most women don't bleed at all their first time having sex, and others bleed very little. Even if you do bleed, it wouldn't be much. Regardless, there are other stains than blood that could get on those sheets. There's nothing you can do to stop it from happening, unfortunately. You may want to lay a towel down underneath you to protect the sheets from wetness and stains. This is really the only advice I have, because I'm sure you don't really want your first time to be in a shower, lol. Seriously, though, be sure you are ready and mature enough to make this very important decision, because once you have gone and done it, you can't take it back. If you're sure you're ready and this is what you want to do, be sure you use protection. You don't want to get an STD, or get pregnant. Be smart and be safe. Take care!
-RJGirl
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