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writes: Me and my boyfriend have wanted to have sex for ages, but now he doesn't think that he's ready. I don't want to rush him into anything but I know that he's the one that I want to do it with. What should I do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dawnie  +, writes (14 February 2007):
 I had a relationship with a guy when i was about 16-17, he to was not interested in having sex with me, we did eventually and i later found out he had been a virgin and that was why he was hesistant. I thought it was quite sweet, although he thought i would laugh.(he was 21 at the time) This could be the reason with your bf, but there could be other reasons too. Have a chat with him and find out how he really feels. Make sure there are no distractions and hopefully he will let you know what he is feeling.
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reader, Sadi +, writes (14 February 2007):
 Is he a virgin? Or are you? Either way,,,, if he would be your first, and he is fully aware of it, Maybe he doesnt see your relationship going anywhere,, Or...
Sorry hun, but Ive seen this plenty of times,,,
Maybe hes sharing this moment with someone else...
Or maybe he is just scared, and doesnt want to ammit it,
Im not trying to make him sound like a bad guy...
Maybe He wants it to be really special for the both of you.. And he doesnt want it to be pushed... Even as much as you tell him you want it, He is just waiting for the perfect moment,, And possibly, He wants to suprise you..?..
I think you should really sit down and talk to him, and let him know how you're feeling.... That way, he knows, and you two can be open...
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