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writes: My Boyfriend leaves me flat every time he is with his nephew? what should I do ? My boyfriend is 41 years he is 16 yrs older than me, I love him with all my heart, but we always have conficts in our relationship , the reason is because he be hanging out with his nephew and get lost , be up and down with him, doesnt come around all day, this always happen.. during fridays , saturdays and sundays, I end up all by myslef at my parents house, I feel like I do got a Boy-Friend ,but in the same time I dont, what I dont get about my boyfriend is that he knows that his nephew doesnt want us to be together so he trys to , seperate us apart. what get me pist off his we be watch tv and all in suddenly his nephew has to know in the window , he says I have to go, take him so some females, I come back, then he leaves dont show up, he leaves me falt . I feel he ditch me, is not the only time 1st or seconde , is getting tried, I feel his nephew is first and important to him then me, he throws me in the corner , so I dont know if i should cut the relationship , because I feel is a game that has with me ... so please let me know what I should. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): I know how you feel. My boyfriend has been doing that to me for four years. He tells me one day in advance that his family is going to come tomorrow and that means that he is going to spend that day with them and he was doing that once a week. I felt like he had a child with whom he had to spend one day a week every week. Now we are living in a different country, but the problem would remain the same if we didn't move to another country. The worst thing is that I should be supportive and I should understand his desire to have one day off of our relationship because of his "family", which I think he shouldn't have expected from me in the first place!
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