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41-50,
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writes:My boyfriend randomly started saying he doesn't feel free when in reality he goes to bars without me sometimes and places without me and I don't go with him. He on the other hand doesn't want me to go to bars because his philosophy is that I will get hit on because I'm a girl and he won't get hit on because he is a guy. It's just a slap in the face when he says he doesn't feel free, because that is anything but true. And right when it's good between us he does this. His brother said something about a barbecue on Saturday so I'm thinking that's what this is about and he just wants to go without me. Because usually we do things together. I understand couples need time a part sometimes but the way he acts like I'm controlling is unfair. What should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 June 2015):
 Let him go do things by himself and YOU do things by YOURSELF. Once he sees that you ARE NOT sitting at home waiting for HIM to see you, he might change his tune.
WHO care that he think as a woman you will get hit on? So what? That is no reason for you to stay home.
Make plans for Saturday with friends, let him know that you can't attend the BBQ with him.... And if he constantly text and call you Saturday don't be in a rush to answer. YOU are a GROWN woman and should be allowed "out" on your own.
Sounds more like he wants to be single. I could be mistaken.
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