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My boyfreind of 5 months has totally lost his sex drive, I receive no cuddles or kisses and I'm being told it's not my fault. What can I do?

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Question - (1 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend who is 6 years younger than me has totally lost his sex drive. We have only been together 5 months. He says its not me and that he still wants 2 b with me forever. Yet he is shutting me off. No cuddles or kisses anymore. I want 2 help but dont know wot 2 do.

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A female reader, SuziQ United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2008):

SuziQ agony auntThis question was from me.

Neither of these replies have helped.

He wont talk to me or see me but says he does love me and wants to be with me forever, just needs time to sort his head out.

More advice please!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008):

If I were in your position. I would get some erotic movies, sexy underwear and drive the boy crazy. Maybe he has his own things on his mind but 5 months is a long time to ponder over things. Try to drive him to come to you instead of you going to him. Work on his mind. Leave notes in his wallet... put a panty in his jacket pocket... I find that when i create a mood in the bedroom my boyfriend is horny all night! I put silk sheets, candles, fragrances, sexy pj's and basically show him that i want him sexually...And sometimes i walk around the flat in a vest with sexy underwear and act surprised when he wants to bang my brains out!

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A female reader, blackberry008 United States +, writes (1 October 2008):

blackberry008 agony auntThat is normal. My friend also experience this with his girlfriend, but he loves his girlfriend with no doubt. He needs medication, he needs to have a check up with the doctor. Trust me.

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