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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: hello, I've been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and i love him to death, but i have a huge problem which flashes warning signs, and i'm terrified to lose him. I hate him talking to girls, normally i don't show it but sometimes i get so so mad when girls talk to him, i feel like asif he has more fun talking to them rather than me? He always tells me im being silly and that he would never leave me for no one, he loves me a hell of a lot. Sometimes his ex before me talks to him, he starts the convosation she does.... she does it for attention but he says there just friends and never talks about her, he says he's glad he found me. I get so jelous but i don't want to be, my blood boils when he talks to his girl mates what should i do to stop myself from being jelous and angry? i love him way to much for us to split i need some tips on how i can stop this and be cool with it? please help xxx
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (24 June 2011):
he sounds like he loves you very much i would just try to relax and trust him because if you dont you are seriously going to lose him just dont think negatively everytime you see them talking just think he loves me not her and eventually you will start to believe there is nothing going on hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): If his initials are C T then yes you should be worried lol either way this dude is being out of line. Tell him how you feel, if he cares for you as much as you care about him then he should understand there are boundaries in a relationship. I'm pretty sure he wouldn't like it if the shoe was on the other foot...
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