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writes:My bf wants me to have sex with his friends. he says I am so good he wants to make then jealous. I'm half tempted to do it because a few of then are really cute and I want to keep him happy. Most of them have seen me topless and almost naked at parties. My question is should I do it
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): What kind of relationship is this? Are you a object for his own good advantage? Yes, make him happy how good you are to even sell on internet. Sorry to sound harsh but, it sounds like you don't have self-respect to yourself and certaintely your so-called boyfriend as no respect for you just to prove something cheap. CHEAP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): I can't even believe you would consider this. OMG Have you no self respect? Or come to think of it, have either of you got any respect for each other?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Are you crazy? Even just considering it is slutty to be honest.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 April 2008):
 I have an idea: Why don't YOU make YOUR boyfriend and all his friends jealous by sleeping with someone else? I suppose he would like that.
I am sorry, but, in case you didn't notice, this man doesn't love you at all. He is treating you like a possession he can lend to his friends. As a piece of flesh, yes. Do yo deserve that?
If you were to sleep with many guys, be it because YOU want to. And choose who.
I have another idea :-). I know this gay guy who would love to make YOU jealous with your boyfriend. I can introduce you if you wish.
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reader, Twirly  +, writes (3 April 2008):
 No! I don't think you should do it!
Try to think of what you would say to a sister or a friend if they asked you the same question, and also think how you would feel afterwards if you and boyfriend should break up.
If you're coming here to ask advice then there must be a part of you that is very unsure about this, no boyfriend worth his salt would ask that of you, so please think very carefully about doing something like this just to please him.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (3 April 2008):
 YES, Tisha!! Amen.
Good advice.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 April 2008):
 I have to wonder how much they are going to pay him for this...
And how many friends?
This all sounds like a really bad idea to me, but if you think you want to go through with it, then you'll need to set some ground rules for this.
First, each and everyone one of these guys must go to a clinic and be checked for sexually transmitted diseases, and bring the lab reports along to prove that they are 100% clean. Also insist that they bring along the doctor's exam notes, just to ensure that they have brought the real thing. This goes for your boyfriend too.
Then, they need to get waivers signed by any girlfriends or wives they might have that the girlfriends/wives are not going to object to this sexual escapade with you.
Then you need to make sure that wherever these encounters are going to take place are not wired with cameras and sound, so that the resulting events don't get uploaded to the internet.
Honestly, you don't need to do anything like this to keep the boyfriend happy. You sound a bit of a party girl, but why would you do something you're not sure of? Aren't you worth more than just some flesh to be passed around between a bunch of horny guys?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (3 April 2008):
What is he, your pimp? And girl, where is your dignity? You're not an object, and don't just sleep around with guys to give them a taste of you. You're worth so much more than that, my sweet. Your boyfriend is a creep and shouldn't even have the nerve to ask a woman that he's dating to SLEEP with SOME of his friends to make them JEALOUS.
He's acting like a pimp. Your boyfriend is kind of a sleeze. (Sorry, sweetness, but he's just not a great boyfriend if he's asking this of you.)
Much luck, sweetness.
xx India
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (2 April 2008):
 One additional comment - I am of the opinion that your boyfriend cares little about you except as a sex object. There is no common sense at all in the notion that his buddies will be jealous of him because you are good in bed and they know it from experience. This whole idea is preposterous, but I sense that you are mainly enjoying your sexual freedom as a frisky kitten and well, to each their own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): silly girl! That is one of the oldest reasons given to girls to make them sluts and to let our boys run trains on the girls.If you love me..prove your love to me orI want to let them know you are the best in the world bla
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (2 April 2008):
In my opinion, you will end up with a very slutty reputation as a result. But if you don't mind the reputation or really care much for the boyfriend, have your fun.
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