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writes:i have just split up with my partner of 4 yrs, we had a baby girl in jan and since then he has been totally selfish going out all the time spending all our money, doing nothing in the house basically because he thought once i had a baby i wouldnt leave him. thing is i have become so sick i have kicked him out but im torn as to whether it is the right thing to do on one hand i love him and want to keep the family together but on the other I think my life will only get worse if i just keep letting him walk over me, even he admits he isnt treating me right???
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (10 June 2007):
 It's true. As you say - if you let him back in, he'll walk on you like your the doormat.
He needs to get his priorities right. He needs to realise that he HAS to be there for you and the child and to do that, he needs to have baby time, you time and not spend all your money.
Kicking him out was the only thing that will make him see sense. If he doesn't, then you and your baby are better off without him.
Don't let him back in until he realises what he must do as a father.
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reader, shownough  +, writes (10 June 2007):
 for the best of you and your baby if he isn't going to change then leave for he knows he is wrong becuz he admit it he just don't care and you should not want your child to experience that and feel that is how you are to treat people or be treated good luck!
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