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writes:My man for seven years is all of a sudden tripping because he thinks I've been losing focus on our relationship which I'm not he's just mad because every time I send a txt he never receives it but I have proof but he thinks I'm lying what should I do?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (30 July 2009):
 he may just be slightly paranoid.
i know i sometimes get like that, he may be questioning things hence why he's been like that toward you i mean he may have a really pants phone and isn't picking up your messages and then is getting paranoid thinking omg! what have i done? is she with someone else?
that kind of thing.
he really should get a new phone though if he's not picking up messages.
good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't have to show the text after all. He told me that he understood what I was saying and that he believes in me he was just starting to feel like he was unappreciated. So I basically let him know how I felt about him which he should already know by now so I'm good to go now. Thanks everyone
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've told him about the proof over and over again. Its like my texts don't go through in the mornings but soon as he text me then they'll start working so he says. I've even taken my phone to the shop and there's no problem. He just keep tellin me that he has no time for lies and can't be in a relationship where lies are involved. Yes I most certainly will show him my messages if I ever get the chance but not he want even respond do you think I've actually lost him for good or do you think he'll be back after he finishes his tantrum?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (29 July 2009):
well how do you know he's not lying.
how do you know he's just saying he's not got them when really he has?
perhaps next time you're with him text him when you're there discreetly and see if he says oh i got a text or something that way you'll know whether or not he gets your messages.
if you've got proof as well then i don't see the problem surely he should believe you.
i mean if his phone is that rubbish then why doesn't he take it to the phone shop and get it repaired or better still get a new phone.
Hope this helps. :)
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, busy04 +, writes (29 July 2009):
 That's very immature on his part, after 7 years he should be more than confident in you and where you stand toward your relationship. I mean something like a text message isn't even worth getting upset over. Let him see that you did send them, and tell him to get a new phone, cause obviously something ain't right with his.
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