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writes: Hiya,Me and my boyfriend have been going out quite a while, but haven't got any further than french kissing. However, my other friend, a boy, told me that my boyfriend had told him that I wasnt as good a kisser as his other previous girlfriends.However, my friend used to fancy me, and could be just jealous.What do I do to kiss better? I haven't kissed that many people. Please help.
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reader, matron +, writes (30 June 2006):
Dont listen to anyone, you've been together awhile and he hasn't given up on you so you must be doing something right.
There's no right or wrong way to kiss and no one can really tell you how to do it, it kind of comes natural while you're doing it. Your friend might be jealous like you said but why dont you just ask your b/f if he's happy with the way you kiss him? Dont worry too much about it, just pucker up and get stuck in x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2006): Who cares how you kiss. Don't base your own self-value and worthiness on whether you kiss well or not. If you and your bf are enjoying it,it shouldn't matter. Everyone has different kissing techniques, so stop being self-concious of all this. Your bf takes you as is or he doesn't. If he doesn't..it's his loss. You carry on and find a more nicer, more suitable boy to date. Just remember, you are young and this will not likely be the only guy you date. We all have to gain 'kissing' experience somewhere. Have fun dating your young man but keep it in perspective. Relax..enjoy your youth and enjoy the experience and it matters not, what he thinks about your kissing. My point is: just have fun! Good luck dear
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reader, camille +, writes (30 June 2006):
Your so called 'friend' who told you that is mean! What a silly thing to say. Kissing isn't something you can really learn, it shouldn't be forced, but a natural thing between 2 people. If you weren't a good kisser, I think you'd be able to sense something was wrong. Or you'd be able to sense that your boyfriend wasn't satisfied. I'm sure you kiss just fine and whether this boy fancies you or not, he does sound jealous and very immature. No-one says such things. I really wouldn't worry. But if you are, just ask your boyfriend....
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