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*aylee
writes:well my boyfriend told me the other night that he liked this girl and im going to 9th grade but he has to stay in 8th grade with her so we will be in 2 differant schools and im afraid that they will go out while im not being able to see him im mean i think i trust him but i dont trust her at all what could i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, stina +, writes (17 July 2007):
 Hi there Haylee,
Well, at least your boyfriend is honest. I'll give him that.
But let me tell you, if a boyfriend of mine ever said he liked another girl, I would have broken up with him on the spot. Obviously he's not ready to be in a committed relationship with me and I'd just be setting myself up to feel like crap the rest of the time we're together.
Are you sure you want to hang onto someone like this? If so, why? Do you really see yourself being happy with someone who can like other people?
Are you sure he wasn't saying this to get you jealous? If that's why he said it, then he is playing games with you and that's not cool. It's actually pretty disrespectful - he's supposed to care about you. And caring about a person doesn't entail making them feel insecure.
Like I said, I would have broken up with him. I think you can do better.
Take care.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (17 July 2007):
 The fact that he told you he likes this girl is not a good sign, i don't think he should have told you this. If he has got feelings for this other girl then he should do the decent thing and finish the relationship with you.
Don't be to upset if things don't work out, you are still very young and have got all the time in the world for dating and boyfriends.
If you really feel he is going to date this other girl why don't you finish it with him before he does with you.
All the best of luck x
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