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writes:I feel that i do not show my appreciation for my boyfriend enough, my boyfriend has mentioned that he doesn't feel that i respect/appreciate him although i know he loves me so much. I love him so much, we have been togethor for 1 year and a half and i just want him to know how much i do love him so much, as i dont feel i show my appreciation as much as i should. I want to make my boyfriend feel special all the time, because this is the way he makes me feel, and my boyfriend is so special. i know this sounds like a strange problem, but i just want to know how i can show my love and appreciation for my boyfriend so he does feel special because he really is special to me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): I think you should tell your guy that you love him, maybe he doesn't believe that you love him as he's told you that you dont 'appreciate' him. maybe you dont show him that you love him.
Ask him if he know that you love him. If he doesn't then ask him why this is? maybe you've done something wrong and not relised it.
He should know you appreciate him by being with him.
If he can't see that you appreciate him and hes telling you that you dont then maybe hes not the right guy for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDoes anyone want to reply?
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reader, Kurt  +, writes (5 February 2007):
 Dating is a time to test out personalities and characteristics in people to find the absolute best fit for you. It sounds like you're getting close but this pair up isn't quite right. Don't change for a BF.
If you really love him then you let him go and go find someone who appreciates you.
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reader, JulietteElise +, writes (5 February 2007):
 tell him nice things often, compliments work like a charm! perhaps even writting everything down in a list/letter that you give him of all the reasons why you love him. hug him often, and kiss, even just quick pecks on the cheack often as well. snuggle and cuddle together. maybe bake him some cookies or whatever else he enjoys. yake him out to dinner and movies, your treat! brag about him while with him to your friends or teacher, parents, etc. hold his hand. tell him you love him often. when you see him, give a huge grin and run up to him for a big hugg. Show you respect his opinions by asking him for advice when you need it. go do things with him that you may not enjoy but that you know he loves. write him a song or poem. buy him little presents. give him flowers. leave him little love notes in his lunch, coat, or whatever. and so on and so forth! bassically anything that you can think of, and anything that you might enjoy yourself. and don't forget to say thank you and show your gratitude when he takes you out or pays for things, and so forth! a year and half can be a long time to date, and things might seem to get stale, but they don't have to! just keep things simmple and fun.
however..... if you belittle your bf a lot in front of others, make fun of him a lot, or are mean to him, or ignore him and other such things, perhaps this is why he is saying he dosunt feel respected and appreciated. so let him know how much you admire him, and so forth
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