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writes: Hi, ive been with my boyfriend now for 5 years and im 16 years old. Recently he's been pulling away from me and i want to bring him closer, is there anyway that i can bring him closer? I really need help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, lucky lynne  +, writes (18 April 2007):
 You cant make someone love you. You are still young. Live your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2007): I'm going to assume that your boyfriend is your age. At 16 you play the court not get yourself into serious relationships. You've been with him ever since you were 11 so that means that he was probably your first boyfriend and vice versa. Maybe he wants to be with other girlfriends and try something new so why don't you let him? You don't need to be tied down at your age. Plus you can't force him to be with you if he doesn't want to. I'm sorry if that wasn't what you wanted to hear.
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reader, Pork Hock  +, writes (15 April 2007):
I'm going to give you some advice. I used to do the same thing, how do I get him back, how do I do this to make him notice, love etc? This sounds harsh but he can read you like a book, he knows you would give anything to make everything perfect, do everything right...you will get him back if you leave him alone. I am 33, divorced and I know that if you want them to notice, love, be into you, then retract, pull back...they will then notice the difference. If they don't appreciate you, it is their loss they can't see what a great thing is right in front of them, if so, then a least you didn't waste your time. I wasted 11 years of my life trying to make my ex-husband appreciate me and he cheated on me and was a fraud. I met him at 19 and divorced at 31 so don't do what I did. Make him do the leg-work, if you have to work at a relationship like I did, it makes you worn out and fed-up and you loose all yourself of who YOU are. Take care.
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