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writes: im not sure how to feel, my bf is going on hols with a group of guys in a few months, they are all 28-32 and he is the only one not single.i had no problem with it as i was chaging jobs an cant offer to go on a hol with him as i dont know what ill be doin/where ill be/or if i could afford it.iv never had any reason to think he'd cheat and just thought it'd be a break for him and no harm him missing me for a week while i caught u with the girls.when i told my friends they all started sayin i was mad to let him go (im not his mother so i cant "let" him do anything,he's 28), he's the youngest of the group and they said as he's the best looking he'd have an easy time findin women, an as he's so far away id never know.their comments on that they find him attractive worry me as i dont want to share his attention and the fact that they assume all men cheat as he'd never get caught.do men cheat if they could get away with it? we'v a normal relationship, 99% perfect, sometimes fight half my fault half his but he's always assured me after an argument that we'd be ok, that in the long run we'r set, and that 99% of not arguing is fantastic. plus im a few yrs younger than him an take care of myself and my appearance and he's never complained, he's happy with how i look and our sex life and our time together.was i right not to be worried? is it just because that most of my friends are single that they see men in this light? even when i was single i didnt think like this but they say im too trusting and gullible and believe what im told (iv had no reason not to).so... ...HONESTLY...do most men cheat?
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 You cant really put all men into a basket and say they are cheaters... We are all very different, some cheat some dont, some women are just as bad as the men, he could be feeling the same, whilst hes away he doesnt know what you will be getting up to, but you if you love each other enough you should trust each other. You are afterall worrying about something that hasnt happend. I cant answer do most men cheat, because there are loads that dont but equally lots that do... so nobody knows for sure, its only what we hear. If you have no reason to doubt him then dont, ignore your friends your the one thats dating him, your the one that knows him, he may be goodlooking, but why does that men he will cheat!? Dont have a seed of doubt in your mind or you will ruin a good relationship, let him have his holiday, let him know how much you love him, and he should respect that your happy for him to go along without you. Dont worry unduly over something that probably isnt going to happen. Relax a little and have faith in your relationship.
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