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writes: Is this meant to hurt?My boyfriend and I have just entered an intimate relationship, althought we are not having sex yet. I am getting quite worried though, because when he puts just one finger inside me, i am experienceing pain. I dont do it myself, because it hurts too much... Is this normal? One finger shouldnt be hurting me?*embarassed* Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 My dear dont be embarrassed but the primary reason why perhaps you are in pain is because as another person said, you may not be ready for sex. You havent had full sex yet, but if a finger is causing you pain, you are not aroused enough and I dont think that maybe you are ready just yet. There is no rush to have sex you know, I am of the opinion, true love waits. Take care. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006): The first time my ex boyfriend put one finger inside me, it hurt me too, and i was still a virgin. I think it's because your still very tight and haven't lost your virginity yet why it hurts so much.
But also, you have to be in "the mood" it can hurt a lot if you are not wet at all. Have a talk with your boyfriend about it, and find out ways he can get you aroused so it dosen't hurt when he fingers you.
And don't be embarrased hun, it's all normal
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