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My bf is asking me about this other woman at my work.

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Question - (4 May 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My BF was asking me alot of questions about a woman I work with (who is divorced and attractive). I was just wondering why this was because he claims that he doesn't think much of her although he doesn't know her well.

He was asking what she was like, hobbies, if she had kids, did i like her, does she date anyone, does she have a house.

Not sure what to make of this. I kept responding with "i don't know her well enough so I dont' know"

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2007):

Yes well done! good answers, if he keeps asking just leave a letter for him telling him that you've left him for her! :)

He needs to learn a lesson about not looking elsewhere, when your in a relationship! And here's the opportunity to give him a shock of his life!!

You should trust him, ditch him with another guy he knows if he wants to be a bastard, that will teach him - i'm a guy. I know my own kind! Ha Ha

Good Luck Princess X

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A male reader, Thomas17 Singapore +, writes (5 May 2007):

Thomas17 agony auntsorry to ask, but are you bi?

and i think your boyfriend is pretty stupid to ask these questions straight up to you.. :(

if he goes overboard and starts bombarding you with really personal questions about this collegue, i think he really likes her then.

then again, you never know. keep out a watch, but dont do anything rash ok?

good luck.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2007):

cd206 agony auntOkay.... are you worried he's actually more interested in her than you? If yes then answer me this... if you liked one of his work colleagues and were thinking of leaving your boyfriend for him would you ask your boyfriend what he was like? Exactly, you'd try to find out behind his back. I think you're doing the right thing by responding that you don't know. Try to be chilled, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

CD

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