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writes: My boyfriend and I dated for 2 years never got in a serious agruement. All of a sudden we start fighting and he stops calling me. I find out he has been talking to a girl that lives in a different country I called the number shes in a different country. He saids he loves me but he wont call me answer my phone calls he turned into someone-else he finally gives me sometime and he just kisses me very passionately, we talked, had sex and then he was crying saying that he didnt deserve me that he was ashamed and embarrassed. I asked him to tell me if he didnt love me I was okay but not to confuse me one day he wants to get back together the next day his confused? WHAT DOES HE MEAN??? IS HE JUST TRYING TO NICE AND NOT HURT ME AGAIN? IS HE GAY?
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (8 April 2006):
 i didnt quite understand everything you said but i agree with shania he's probarbly feeling guilty for some reason, maybe he doesnt ove you, maybe he's cheating, maybe he's in love with someone else, there a number of different reasons why. maybe he wants to be with you but is confused about how feels or what he wants or whats thinks.you both should talk (just talk) about how you feel, what you want, about you relationship. because this guy just seems to be playing games and thats unfair on you.
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reader, shania +, writes (8 April 2006):
 It sounds to me like he is carrying some kind of guilt around with him.Usually,if there is someone else involved then the partner who is cheating is the one who starts to change in character such as.....difference in behaviour,being argumentive and distant.You meantioned this other girl that he is in contact with....didn't you ask your boyfriend,who she was? There seems to be a breakdown on communication here.If he has not being answering your phone calls then yes...he does have something to hide and im afraid if he doesn't tell you soon then i cannot see you two having a future together.Be careful though because when he does actually confess,it might not be on what you want to hear....but you cant carry on like this either.Good luck.
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