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30-35,
*attie90
writes:ok i think im just about the most jealous person my bf just got a new job workin at a canoe launch loadin and unloadin the canoes into the water and i went up thr yesterday 2 pick him up from work and the girls there are dropd dead sexy perfect body hour glass figure with big boobs and nice asses and i got none of that im not all tht pretty compared 2 them i usually think im quite attractive but compared 2 them im not at all i feel ugly as hell what the h should i do cause he didnt know tht i was there already and i saw him starin at them like he was tearin their clothes off his his eyes it made me so upset 2 c him do tht cuz he used 2 do tht 2 me has he lost interest weve been together for a year has he lost interest 4 me or does he not love me anymore is it possible for sum1 2 fall out of love tht fast tho idk what 2 do can sum1 help me i talked 2 him about it and he told me no matter how much he looks at sum1 it doesnt make him love thm as much as he loves me he does he tells me that im beautiful so why is he doin this
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reader, wisdomwoman +, writes (8 July 2008):
Guys are always going to admire beauty. This has absolutely NO bearing on you, who you are, how lovely and beautiful You are, and how loved you are by your boyfriend. Sit with your emotions and send love to yourself. This is not really about your boyfriend. It's about finding a place of security and love for yourself, that comes from within. Remember who you were Before you met your boyfriend. As a young person, there is time for many guys to come into your life. Imagine a scene where You were the lucky girl at the canoe rental shop, with two very hunky guys working alongside you- enjoy that feeling! It doesn't mean that you would choose them over your bf, just that it is a moment to savor! You are the only one who can truly be responsible for your feelings. Now is a good time to learn about dealing with jealous emotions... because when you overcome them, you will find such peace and joy in every moment of your life. You'll be able to encounter anything with grace and Love.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (7 July 2008):
 Guys are going to look. That's just a fact of life. If they've got a pulse, and working eyeballs, it's going to happen.
Has he given you any cause to worry about the stability of the relationship? If not, you should take him at his word and trust the man. It sounds like it's not really a problem, but you can MAKE it a problem by playing the "jealousy" card too strongly.
Unless he gives some other indication that he's up to something with one of these other women, just accept his behavior as a normal part of what a man is, and realize that it's you he really cares for.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (7 July 2008):
 When you own a car, it doesn't mean that you can't look at other cars.
If he's happy with you, why would he risk the relationship?
When I was with my girlfriend, I was still looking at other girls all the time. When I was seeing a cute guy, I was asking my GF "Hey, what do you think of that guy?" and she was saying things like "Ouuuh he sure as nice arms".
Think I was jealous? Why would I be? I loved her and I knew that she loved me, no matter what she was telling me about the other guys ... I trusted her.
If it turns out that he falls in love with someone else, just let him go. If you love him, you'll want him to be happy ... even if it's not with you.
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (7 July 2008):
 He loves YOU! Not the perfect supermodelsexyblondebigboobed girls over at his job! He loves YOU! Tell this to yourself everytime you feel like crap ...
HE LOVES ME AND ONLY ME! ...
Beautiful women are everywhere .. you have to open your eyes and walk with your head up high!!!
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