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writes: Hi there, I am really really hurt an upset, my boyfriend had this friend, she calls him alot now and then, when i asked him who she was, he replied back saying she is my uni mate, he even swore on my life that shes just a uni mate.... me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half now, i really trusted him so much, but each and every time he use to brake my trust by liein to me.... Anyway just last week on Valentines evening i had his mobile phone on me, so as i was getting bored i was going through his contact list, and an a unusual name come up as bimbo. I then called that number, a girl answered, i asked her if she knew my boyfriend. She said of course i do, i asked her how u know him, she then said my boyfriend dealt with her sister. I was shocked then she and her sister both got together and started telling me things, like how they were in love and were gonna get married, and he promised her he will marry her after he passes his digry and said they will have a baby and name him adam.... My qustion is that my boyfriend promised all these thing to me about marriage and also having a baby and naming him adam, can it be true that he did cheat on me with his 'uni-mate'? I then called his uni mates if they knew this girl, and they all said never heard of her, the truth was she never went to uni , she use to work with him in mcdonalds.... please can u help me, .... Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (1 March 2006):
 My advice is still the same, ditch him as he will surely hurt you, this other so called friend is also playing games with you and if I was you I would ditch her too, as he is either having an affair with your bloke or really wants one and will do everything she can to have one.
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reader, Sophia Tareen +, writes (28 February 2006):
Sophia Tareen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey there, thank you all for replying back to my previous question, meant alot to me, the thing is, i did ask him and he keeps on saying that as they were good mates they use to chat about alot of things, like babies and all sorts, he says his mate saira asked him if when you have a baby what would you like to name him, so then he told her through a conversatoin that i would love to name my baby adam.... the thing is, she also said to me things like.... when your boyfriend gets upset with you if your running a little late to link him, then does he ever say things to you like.... bla bla bla ????????.... (sorry but i did not want to repeat my boyfriends words, please forgive me) anyways, so i said yes to her to what she said about what he says when his angry, i was shocked, and another thing she said like, does he ever say to you like, if i ever want to cheat on you then i can any time you will never find ouy, but i would never do that to you.... i said yes to every thing she asked me because it was all true what she was saying, but when i asked my boyfriend that how the hell does she know what you say to me, exatly how you say it and when.... he said i use to tell her every thing about me and you.... what shall i do and what and who should i believe, because so much other lies have come out of my boyfriends just recently after the valentine drama, please can you heip me am going crazy day by day.... thank you very much but can you help me by replying back to what i really should do, is it worth fighing for or should i just let go and forget the whole thing never happened, and after that will i be happy with my self....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006): Confront your bf. This girl may be lying to split the both of you up - how do you know its all true ? You gotta trust you bf over a girl you've never MET before ! The only way is to ask him I'm afraid - and good luck xxx
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reader, smeedle +, writes (25 February 2006):
Ditch him now, he is playing with you and looks like he has been playing with someone else too.
Finish it and move on.
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