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I persuaded her to ask him out..but I found out he doesn't want to date her. I feel bad for her-what should I do?

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Question - (24 February 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

My friend has liked this guy for a few years now and they were always close friends. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and so everyone started telling my friend that she should ask him out or to go to the prom. It always seemed obvious to me that they both liked each other. I gave my friend the final push to ask him and so she called him and left a message because he didn't answer. It's been about a week now and one of my other friends asked him why he hasn't given her an answer. He said that he didn't want to go to prom with her because if he has a girlfriend by then, he'd want to take her to prom instead. Does he not understand that she likes him? I just feel bad because I was the one that got her to ask him out, and now he hasn't answered. Should I tell her how it is or should I let her wait and find out on her own?

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A female reader, valsan +, writes (24 February 2006):

If you were close enough friends for you to give her that final push, and she went on what you said to her, then you should be enough of a friend to tell her the truth about what is really going on.

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