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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend wants us to go on holiday, which there is nothng wrong with, my problem is he has bought me lots of bikinis which he knows I wont wear becuase I sort of hide in big baggy clothes as I have stretch marks etc. and I look awful, how can I find the confidence to wear them or tell him I don't want to wear them in fact I would prefer not going on a beach holiday.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): Don't do anything you are not comfortable with! If your bf can't appreciate that then he doesn't deserve you. Be clear that it doesn't make you feel comfortable, and if he failed to get your point then you need to move on and find someone who loves and respects you for who you are. You deserve better hun as your bf sounds too shallow. Don't wear his stuff and tell him that if he loves you as he says then he needs to learn how to respect you, otherwise break up with him and get with someone who's worth you.
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