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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for the past 10 years. We have lived together for the last two years. I have two girls with him, he treats them very well and they love him too. I have been wanting to get a bigger place but he refuses. I think about leaving him and going on with my life, but it is very difficult for me. I love him, but I do not want to live in a small house that is more like a fixer upper than a house. Please Help. I just need advice to help me decide Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): If you are thinking that leaving is an option then maybe it is the not just the house that has become a "fixer upper" that is not roomy enough for two....If the house is that the problem, YOU take the initiative to change it...find another home you can afford, tell him you and the kids are going to be living there and that you want him to come too...NO anger , NO threats...just you fixing a problem he refused to address.
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