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writes: OK well my boyfriend and i have been having troubles. We are both 16 and have been going through a rough patch for about a month, neither of us know why it's not the same as it was. We just seem to argue about the smallest things. I love him, and he says he loves me, however he only tells me once every now and again and he's not like he was, he used to tell me all the time and i dnt know theres a mixture of things but both of us know that it's not right. I asked him if he wanted to break up then if thats what he wants then ok, he says i didnt say that now did i and wether it was worth trying hes not convinced.Sometimes he says the right things and sometimes he doesnt, he upsets me some of the times but i know he cares. Sometimes we are fine, tho and really enjoy ourselves and i just want us to go back to normal. If u need anymore information about us pls ask coz i reli need some advice i just dread when the time comes for if we do split.I just feel as tho i get mixed signals but he says such nice stuff other times like how i am his soul mate but then we know things arent working etc.
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reader, Floppy +, writes (28 March 2006):
Hello,I know how you feel darling, my advice to you would be to give him a little bit of time. For a few days, have about half as much contact with him as you do at the moment. By this time he should have learnt that he will miss you if he ever loses you! Love always has bad patches, talk to him tell him how down you are getting, both of you should get together and tell each other what things you do that upsets you! Then work around them and sort yourselves out! This should help your relationship get back on track sweeti! Good luck!!... rate me.
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