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writes:My best mate is obsessed with this guy who obviously doesn't feel the same about her, she's said they have done things which im not really sure they have. He is her brother's best mate. No one really beleives she has because it all sounds a bit far fetched. Me and my family and our friends know, but none of her family know because she says he doesnt want them to know.Also, when he had a proper girlfriend that everyone knew about, she classed it as cheating on her...even though none of her family knew they were supposed to be together. Shes obviously in some kind of fantasy world, i would like to talk to him about it but she said if i do he will finish with her and denie that they were ever together. I never see him only when he is with other people and dont get the chance to talk to him. Would it be bitchey if i did talk to him about it? . She is going to tell the wrong person one day. He does seem really nice, but he seems oblivious to all of this. This isnt the first time shes done this. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the great advice xxx
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reader, citizenerased +, writes (3 June 2007):
It wouldn't be bitchy, in this situation it would only be right for you to talk to him. If this is all in your friends head, then she needs to get some help. If they were in a relationship, why would he deny it? Unless he was ashamed, and even then it provides a good reason for you to talk to him, because either your friend is dilusional, or she's being treated badly in her relationship.Hope this helps
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