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female
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30-35,
*shley Rae
writes:Ok so I am 17 and my boyfriend is 21 and he has started pulling away. I have been cheated on before, and i knew that it was going on but he didnt act any different, so now i have some serious trust issues with guys. My boyfriend now of just over 7 months has started to back out of our relationship. He would "play jokes" on my best friend, like hitting on her just to see what she would say. Her and I tried to ease our mind, and settle some of my issues by pretending to be another girl in emails. He started out really cool to her and then between the two of us he was in the net and asking for a phone number and address to go and "start their relationship" He was telling her about how he wanted her to make him cheat on me, and how bad he wanted her. The same thing happened in the begining of us, but the girl accually existed. He denied it and I had no reason not to believe him so I just blew it off. Then his jokes got a little more serious with my friend, she stopped talking to him because she didnt want it to end up hurting me and until recently they havent talked. The three of us plan on buying a house. My best guy friend, the guy that I fell hardest for and have loved all my life, says that I should break up with my boyfriend and I should move in with him. The bad part is, I am accually thinking about it. So, aunts and uncles, any advice?
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (23 February 2009):
 Your boyfriend sounds like an arse to be honest and blunt, no offence intended! Move in with the best friend!!!! You will be much happier and you are right to have trust issues with this guy, sounds like he would hurt you! You need to move on from him or things will just get worse! X
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