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writes: My best guy friend keeps asking me out. I just want to be friends and don't want to ruin our friendship. I rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working. I really don't want to be the bad guy and my boyfriend wants to kill to him. Any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 okay don't let your boyfriend kill him- tad extreme but why don't you sit him down, tell him that you like someone else and that you can't hurt him and wouldn't. you understand his feelings but need him to move on (don't need to use my words just an example)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 The fact that he persists and asks you out regardless of the fact that YOU are happy and have a boyfriend - is actually pretty obnoxious. I would give him the heave ho. Unfortunately, he really is only thinking about himself, not about you, and that's not a good sign for either a friend or boyfriend material. Good Luck. XXX
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reader, MIZZ MALLY  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 if he use 2 go with ur bestfriend then leave him alone because thats a set up 4 you and ur bestfriends relationship, but if he's just a friend and he's ur type then go 4 it but sounds 2 me like you dont want 2 have n e thing 2 do with him 2 tell him nice 1 more time then if he dont listen just go off..you told him more then once and he still doesn't listen??? just go off..
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reader, staceyxxx +, writes (13 November 2008):
 i have been here before and it didnt end up good because i was way to soft with him and i didnt seem to get the message across, you need to get him on his own and say to him we are very good friends and i feel that if we have a relationship it will mess up what we already have, say to him would you rather be a good friend or end up not speaking at all.hopfully he will think to himself and back off because he dosent want to lose you as a friend, if not say to him look i like you as a friend if you carry on the way your going we will not be friends at all.make sure you get it though his head because if you dont it could end up bad, when this happened to me we were both a bit drunk and he kissed me knowing i had a boyfriend and i slapped him and he started sayin that i wanted i thought you liked me :S was not good and still today he have both cant stand to be next to each other, if you dont want this to happen i would do somthink soon just incase.hope this helps :)
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reader, ashleyterese +, writes (13 November 2008):
 okay well since you have a boyfriend, then first of all you need to telly our boyfriend to chill since your with him and you have no feelings for the other guy.
and for the other guy, just try to explain to him that you guys really are better as friends, and if that still doesn't work then maybe you should have your boyfriend talk to him, but nice, and just have him explain that she really just wants to be your friend and nothing more.
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