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writes:Hi.My best friend has a girlfriend. She hates me because she's jealous when me and him hang out together. It's not like we hang out alone together without her knowing - we ask her to come out but she always says no.Last night I was on MSN to him and he said "I cant hang out with you anymore" And I said " well if that's what you really want" and then he said "the bets are off! We can hang out again" about a minute later :SI asked him whether he'd been betting with his girlfriend on our relationship and he said "No... I've got to go" and left.I'm pretty annoyed because I don't understand what he was talking about. I think he was messing around because his girlfriend was at his house and he wanted her to see that he can treat me like sh*t when he wants to show that he has no feelings towards me.He keeps doing things like this and they never make sense. I don't get it. Why would he come out with " I can't see you anymore. oh! yeah I can"? I'm fed up of him messing me around because he's with his girlfriend and he never comes out to see me anymore coz she doesn't like it. Should I ditch him as a friend because he's no longer there for me or just accept his strange ways?Any advice would be great. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): Hi love,
give him lots of space cheeky little s**t, i had a friend like this, i was always there and as soon as a girl came along the nails came out. As soon as the relationship had problems he would come to me for advise. Is that how it is your end, I gave him some distance as i told him constantly that i was fed up with his green eyed monsters, as he well new i was not an unkind person and would make a big efort to get on with anyone as his happiness was very important to me and it hurt to be treated this way, as im sure you are feeling the same. If love he values your friendship at all he should come to you with a big apology.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (23 June 2007):
 Hiya bubbloo 24.
After reading what you have just wrote i would say that he is not a really good friend at all if he is prepared to treat you like that just because he has a girlfriend that has insecurities, i would certainly not treat any of my friends like that because of a partner because at the end of the day your friends are the people who are really there for you when it counts.
If you get rid of him as a friend completely then the girlfriend has won, because that is clearly her intensions, tell him that he has hurt you treating you this way and you don;t think it would be a good idea to spend quite as much time together while he is with her, and give it time if she is that controlling he will soon get bored and get rid of her then he needs to do some making up to you.
Take care.xx.
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