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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Can someone tell me what I need to do to become a monk. I can't cope. I want to stop watching another man love the girl who's heart I ripped out then taunted. I'll never find another girl like her. I'm driving myself crazy trying to figure out ways to catch her attention and fall in love with me again. I wasn't ready then but I am now. I fucked up. My days are one big blur and clouded hays. Alls I do is think, breathe, eat, walk, plan, and dream her. I smashed my computer to pieces yesterday to keep myself from obsessing with her then high tailed it to Best Buy and bought another within the same hour. I can't live like this. Am I in a nervous breakdown? I tried to make good by her but she's not having it. She treats me like I don't exist. Now I know how she felt when I devoured her heart and taunted her. I brought this on myself. I've broken my own heart. I can't stop myself from watching her pamper him. I'm furious, jealous, sad, numb, shocked, tired of making up happy endings. I need the monestary to come take me out on a stretcher and put me in seclusion. Where do I find this at? I need to go soon before I throw myself under a truck. I fucked up. She said she would never leave me. I can't be upset with her but I am. I'm ready to stop obsessing with her but I need help from you guys. I'm going to turn myself around and me a man of God. I'm about to smash up this new computer. Maybe I should check myself into the ER? How do I forgive myself? What should I do? No girl's gonna treat me like she did. I was her world. I wish she had been mean to me. Why did she have to love me and now I can't cope with her lovinghim. I get sick seeing them in piturres and her smiling and happier than when she was with me. Helllllllpppppppp!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): You'll feel like shit for a while. Don't drink yourself into a stupor or wreck your house, you'll just be mad at yourself later. Chill for a while and then find someone you find attractive. Throw yourself into it. Play the field for a while and find distractions. Use this as an opportunity to improve yourself (NOT to get back with her, but for you). If you let yourself get obsessive, you lose the good in yourself over time. And don't try to be her friend until you can manage it in an authentic way. Take care man.
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reader, kirra07 +, writes (10 February 2011):
How long ago did you break up? Have you been trying to occupy your mind with other things? Work? School? Friends? etc? And how long was this relationship? It does sound like you could benefit from some more help - counsellor, psychiatrist. It sounds like this obsession has gone way too far if you are breaking things and unable to control yourself. If you feel that you are unable to cope, you can go to the hospital and they should have counsellors and social workers that can talk to you and refer you to the help you need. Also, you can try hotlines where you can talk to people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): If you truly care about her, you'll leave her alone. You sound actually psychotic and if she did heaven forbid come back to you, she would be endangering herself as you sound like you need mental help. You missed your chance, it's not ever going to happen again, leave her alone and stop with the crazy stalkerish behaviour and consult a psychiatrist. I'm really not joking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): To be honest I think you need some help, go and see a counsellor to talk things through with, instead of taking it out on your computer or doing something stupid. It sounds like your obsessive and emotional behaviour has gone far beyond normal.I seriously don't think going to a monestary will help as that takes a truly religious person who really wants to worship God, not someone who is depressed because they're jealous and upset about their ex girlfriend.
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