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*ioletSparkle
writes:I don't know what is happening with my friend's boyfriend, two years ago there was a snow storm and he happened to be stranded in my city, although he lives and works in another one, so I had to put him up for the night. It was weird because he kissed me good night in a strange way, and, because I wasn't feeling well for a food poisoning, proposed to put his mattress in my room (!) to make me feel safer, even if he was just in the nearby room. Almost every time I met him he was complaining about his girlfriend behind her back, because she was always traveling, didn't consider him, didn't thank him for things and appreciate his cooking (all things that are actually true), some months ago they had a baby so I was hoping things were getting better, but instead last month I was visiting at their place and he asked me for my telephone number, right after asking me about my love life (it's not like we talk about personal stuff or anything), and told me that he was working part time in my city, and could we meet up. Maybe you don't think this is making a pass, but I felt really uncomfortable, and in any case I didn't give my phone number, and for sure didn't meet him! but now I have to go visit them again (she doesn't really go out much because of the baby, she is one of my best friends), and SHE wants to go somewhere after dinner and leave me at home with her boyfriend,what is going on? Am I imagining things?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 April 2012):
 Maybe he is just an over friendly guy, he has not done anything as of yet to break the trust of his girlfriend, if he over steps the mark then you can shoot him down and tell your friend, but he hasn't. He hasn't tried anything as off yet. You done the right thing not giving him your number if you are uncomfortable. Maybe he was just wanting to become friends with you as he knows you are good friends with his girlfriend, why not suggest to your friend that you go out along with her as well and her boyfriend can babysit.
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reader, Thisiscrazy  +, writes (23 April 2012):
 Hun I'm going through the same thing don't meet up with him stay away he wants you and his girl he is a male they want it all and he will say what you want to hear to get what he wants. Just remember he is thinking of him and him only
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