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writes: so i've got this extremely strange relationship with one of my best friends. we liked each other a lot, but both were taken so nothing came of it. we just kind of pushed the feelings away. but then one night, after about six months of holding it back, we finally just hooked up. but then decided we shouldn't do that again because we don't want to hurt our partners or each other. but now, she's planning out our lives together after college. we both graduate in december, and she's been saying that we should get crappy jobs together until the summertime, and then should move away to boston together. she said she can't imagine her life without me. it's all so confusing to me. i mean, i guess it's possible that she just sees me as a friend. but her wanting us to go together after college just strikes me as odd. not something that 'just friends' do. especially since we've only really known each other for about 6 or 7 months. not our whole lives or anything like that. that and the fact that we just hooked up less than a month ago. what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2006): see, that's the confusing thing. it seems by her actions that she IS interested in me, but yet she claims that she doesn't still have feelings for me, and that she's happy with her partner. so i don't know what to make of it. i'm lost.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2006): It sounds like your friend has much stronger feelings than you do. Unless you really think about it and really cant bear being apart, I would tell her sorry and do your own thing... Don't give mixed signals, tell her how you feel plainly and clearly.
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