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writes:My best friend told me she loved me. She also knew that I knew she just broke up with her boyfriend. I dont know if she actually likes me or if i am just the rebound guy. I love her too, but it felt weird when we were together. I told her that she should choose whoever she likes more because she stil loved her ex. Also my parents dont like her, which makes my case that much harder. I told her that I wanted to be with her, but she should clear things up abd do whatever she wants. I dont want to boss her around either. Now we are not together, but I think it was a mistake letting her go. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): awwwwww :)im the same age and i fell in love with my best boy mate too...but he was going out with MY best girl mate...awkward :Pi found that all the boys I went out with, were boys I dated because I couldn't be with my best boy mate, the one I actually loved.this could be the case with your friend here?Ive been with my boyfriend for 7months now, and we both love each other.Try it :)xx
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reader, Isa123 +, writes (12 April 2010):
 Oh boy.
When women are broken, most of them go to the nearest man they have for comfort. And they will do WHATEVER it takes (without even realizing it) to get back up on her feet again.
If you really love her, you'd tell her to wait. She will have to understand that her mind is still in the past and she has to move on on her own. Because sadly if she has moved on and is with you, chances are that she will leave you.
Good luck to you!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 April 2010):
I think you made the right decision, and to be fair you're young, so well done for you. I know you love her, but as you'll learn more as you get older, it's not worth taking on someone who still has a lot of emotional baggage from a past relationship. There will always be feelings for ex's, good and bad. But if she still loves her ex, she can't love you as much as you want. You made the right decision. If and when she gets over him, she can come back to you. If she doesn't, you'll know she was not the one for you.
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reader, Jerry James Paul  +, writes (12 April 2010):
If actually u luv her,dn't let her go.If being with her will make u happy go ahead.U deserve happines and fulfilment in ur life.As 4 ur parent,try 2 make them understand dat u luv her and want 2 be wit her,gone are the days when parents dictates who they want us 2 go out with.Do not accept the limitations that others try 2 place on u.Ur possibilities are limitless.Finally make sure u both love each other before u go deep into the relationship.LUV IS THE ULTIMATE.
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