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female
age
30-35,
*nake-charmer
writes:well ive been best friends with *tilly all my life, and tillys cousin, *jason, has a huge crush on me. but both myself and tilly have a crush on jasons best friend *tod. (actually im in love with tod) and she knows it. now jason is having a barbeque tonight, and invited tilly and her dad, (normally its a given that me and tilly are together). tilly rings me up today and states that its best if i dont go, because i dont wanna go out with jason, when really i think its because she knows tod prefers me. im really annoyed with tilly. any help/advice is really appreciated. what should i do? x
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reader, chirpychicken +, writes (15 April 2007):
 i agree that the friendship is more important but it sounds to me like tilly doesnt care about your friendship and put you first so why should you care. wait and see what happens and if she does go behind your back you know where her loyalties lye. tell her what you think of her and go round with some other mates she will soon come down to earth and realise how much more important you are. If she doesnt then she is not worth worrying about.
hope you sort thigs out xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): What is more important, this friendship that you have with your best mate Tilly or having a relationship with her cousin's mate Tod which she also has a crush on? What you have got to remember is that friendships come before relationships. Don't even go there (have a relationship with Tod) as you'll end up falling out with Tilly. Even if Tod feels the same way dating him for a few months or so isn't worth risking a friendship for. And if she is a good best friend she'll stay away from him too. Find someone in which your best friend doesn't have a crush on.
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