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*onfusedsoul
writes: Is it true that a woman would generally now allow the guy to have sex with he until she is able to get the guy go deeper? I am not comfortable going so deep emotionally for having sex, so how can i make over for it? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, confusedsoul +, writes (19 April 2007):
confusedsoul is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your response everyone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): The reason why this is is because women are more likely to get emotionally involved with a man after having sex with him than the man. Also they like the feeling that the man she is having sex with cares about her rather than just having sex with her without feeling anything for her. So for the sake of a woman's feelings don't sleep with a woman unless you have feelings for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): A woman who is looking for a relationship generally will not have sex with a man until he shows that he cares deeply for her....you are not comfortable going going deeply emotionally just to have sex.....be upfront about your intentions, don't lead a woman on just to have sex.
Sometimes women want the same thing, and if you present yourself honestly you will find someone who feels the same....usually these sexual relstionships are short lived, and if a woman hangs on for a long while, she is hoping for something deeper most often and is not being completely honest.....
I think the best relationships are the ones where you are emotionally involved, and if you are uncomfortable, perhaps it is because you have not met the right woman for you that you would want to have deep feelings for.
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