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writes:hey i could really use some advice.Ive been seeing this guy for a few months and we had to keep our relationship secret as he was living with his ex gf. however she found out and appeared fine with. The thing i dont understand is that he told me he cant stand her and wants her out yet they get take-aways together and go out for meals? He says he loves me and wants to be with me so whats going on?! please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): You poor girl! I really feel for you hun. At the end of the day, only you can make the decision if you want to run or stay. However, I believe you are far too lovely and great for this guy. The one fact that your relationship has to be kept secret is wrong. Even if there is nothing 'bad' going on... wouldn't you prefer someone who would want to show the world how smitten he is with you? Or tell his friends and family how great his new girl is?
I'm so sorry hun. Please be very careful. This situation sounds dangerous and could possibly end with you and his 'ex' being very hurt. btw, whatever happens... you have done nothing wrong and nothing silly. seems like such a shame that a nice trusting girl like you has been found by the wrong guy.
I really hope this message helps you.
Good luck x
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reader, elsie +, writes (16 April 2007):
 why the hell has your relationship been kept a secret who from and why????have you met her??i think hes stringing both of you along and sorry to say it the next thing is youll probably be finding out is that they are still sleeping together.one way of finding out is to turn up at the house that is presuming hes given you the address?hes taking the p... out of you babes left,right and centre.i wouldnt give it another day unless you find out more and get it from the horses mouth ie.her.even then id tell him either hes out of there within a week or it over.be strong he certainly isnt.
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reader, peppersalt +, writes (14 April 2007):
If this girl really was just his ex (no feelings involved) you wouldn't have had to keep the relationship a secret. In my opinion he should be making moves to find a new place as soon as possible, if he honestly can't stand her he'd have been out of there a long time ago. Ask him if he's planning on getting a separate place any time soon, if not I'd say see ya later!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): sorry but you need to get out of this relationship it seems a bit dodgy to me how do you know she is fine with it and how long had they been together at the very least you need to have more answers someone is lying and it will probably be him
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