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writes: my best friend (male) admitted to haven falling in love with me and it's a dream come true! The thing is before when we were just friends i would always be the one keeping us in touch but now things have changed and i want to play hard to get. It has been a fortnight since i have last seen him and even though i know how much he likes me, he hasn't made any contact! what should i do?? its his birthday next week and valentine's day soon!!! please help!
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 if you were the one contacting all the time, he may be worried also why you have not initiated contact for 2 weeks. More than plenty of time to play hard to get, which because of your previous friendship, you should be past that by now.
Call him now!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): Remember, this isn't just some bloke you picked off the street and became intimate together. This is your best friend. If you start treating him with all these little games, then he will no longer be your best friend but just some guy.
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reader, stina  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Anonymous,
If you're playing hard to get after he told you his feelings, then maybe he thinks you're weirded out! I suggest you don't play games with someone who obviously has such deep feelings for you. If you care about him, call him up and make him feel like you value him. You say it's a dream come true? Well make it a dream come true for him, as well.
Take care.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (15 January 2007):
 "I want to play hard to get." What kind of crap is that? I hope he finds someone else. . . who doesn't play games.
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reader, Alex706  +, writes (15 January 2007):
Now, he confessed to you he is in love with you. He has no idea you have always been into him. You usually contact him but not this time. Can you see where im going with this? From his point of view, you probably come across like you are ignoring him because you don`t return his feeling. Especially because you two are best friends and he wants to keep it that way even if this goes all pear shaped, he is probably thinking he should give you time and not to push it. Contact the poor guy! That what I say!
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reader, Lilly223 +, writes (15 January 2007):
 What is it about when you enter in to a relationship, people feel that it is THEN that you start to play games?! Why would you want to play hard to get? Especially now that he has told you how he feels and you are thrilled with the new information?! For crying out loud, call the guy, he's probably feeling like crap that you don't feel the same way he does. CALL HIM!
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 The guy told you how he felt about you, and you haven't called him in a fortnight, probably he feels rather rejected, and he might possibly be a bit upset/sad about it.
Don't you think it's about time you picked up the phone, called him and started going out with him instead of playing games?
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