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*mogurl321
writes:So i was at my boyfriend's house and i was texting my best friend. {ive known my best friend since me and him were in 2nd grade) But anyway while texting him my boyfriend just looks at me. he called my name so i would look up. i did and he toke me phone. i jumped up and snatched it back. he had the biggest smirk and said ah so who are you texting? why are you hiding it? (my best friend and my boyfriend hate each other by the way. i dont know why they just do) but anyway i smiled at him and said why is it important? he kissed me and said well its important because i want to know whos talking my girls attention away. i just laughed and said well its just my friend. my boyfriend's smile went away. he looked at me and said HIM? i just looked at my boyfriend and i said him? has a name! (lets call him BFF) My boyfriend said wow why do you even talk to him? i rolled my eyes and just kept texting. my boyfriend toke my phone and said wow what a sexy conversation! (me and my BFF was talking bout sex actaully! haha not with each other though) i told him to give it back and he said why do you even talk about sex with him? i looked at him and said hes my best friend! my boyfriend gave me my phone back and said softly. 'if we werent together would you date him? i kissed my boyfriend and said No! but he just slightly smiled.. Am i wrong for texting my best friend about sex? we were just playing around!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2012):
 Well that's good, am glad it worked out for you.
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reader, emogurl321 +, writes (3 January 2012):
emogurl321 is verified as being by the original poster of the question yes i did tell my boyfriend i would stop he did say it was a bit hard for him to know i was talking about sex with my best friend. My best friend understood and well we all came to a understanding! thank you
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 January 2012):
I think you know that this is secretly really hurting your boyfriend. You should not need to chose between the two of them off course, but you should not over step the marks of the friendship as well. Tell your boyfriend that it was wrong of you to talk about sex with anybody else. Yes he might be your friend but it is making your boyfriend feel uncomfortable so you need to make a compromise tell your friend talking about sex is out of the question and tell your boyfriend that you will stop if it annoys him.
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