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writes:OK me and my best friend haven't hung out since the summer I guess because we both have been busy. I am a full time college student and work part time and she is a mother and works full time. Even though we have been busy we have stayed in touch via text and Facebook. She tells me all the time that she misses me and wants to hang out but when it comes down to it she never comes through or stands me up and worst of all never calls or anything to let me know what happened! I have let it slide for the fact that she has a child but last time she stood me up I found out via fb that she had hung out another friend of hers and she will ask other friends of hers on fb to hang out! Is she trying to get a rise out of me for whatever reason and I should talk to her? Or should I just forget her and move on with my life?
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reader, Rochi  +, writes (25 January 2012):
 well to begin wth,u ddnt elaborate more for how long you were friends,and how you met,but either way ,you should talk to her even via telephone that you are not okay with her behaviour towards you,you dont like it and what she is doing is wrong,ask her whether she still wants to be friends,if not then you will move on and find other friends who are worth your friendship,as you said that she never calls you make the call you,if she doesnt pick then text her,talking is the best first solution.goodluck
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 Something is going on here and I understand where you are coming from because I have been in a similar situation. My solution was to go and make new friends and start spending time with them. All the best I know how much this hurts.
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