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anonymous
writes:I wanted two know if my sexual behavior is normal i started two have sex with prostitutes since i was 19 then it was not a big deal because i was only going to a prostitute every 30 days or more.But since I get every time more frustrated of not finding a girlfriend or a girl I can have some sex and fun im really not a ugly guy but girls here are very closed, tradicional and dont like to flirt.i started two watch porn i watch like 30 min a day and i have every time, more interest in having sex with different prostitutes. i found a club that i feel comfortable i like two speak about different things with the prostitutes and after i spend normally 30 minutes in the room with the girl having first oral sex sometimes without condom. i give her also oral and 69 without protection sometimes, and after Traditional sex always with a condom.sometimes if i like a lot the girl i repeat her 2 times or more.right now im going almost every week last time i was in these club i had sex with 2 different girls a brunette and a blondie from east europe. my favorites. This was last weekend and now im again wanting to go with other prostitutes i spoke with friends and they want to come also with me to this club. they said 'lets buy some liquor get drunk go to the club and have sex with some girls.'these is the way i make it many times i like to mix sex and alcohol it's like i enjoy to have this adrenaline pump.my family knows about my things. my mother and cousin find it great i show them the pictures of the prostitutes and they say that they are much nicer looking that any girl you see on the street.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2012): you can get STIs through oral sex, so if your doing that a lot with prostitutes, you're at a high risk.as for whether this is normal? Let me ask you, is it normal to be an alcoholic or drug addict? there are lots of alcoholics and drug addicts out there so if by 'normal' you mean common well I"m sure what you're doing is common. But if by normal you mean is there something wrong with you and all the many other men who do this too, will it cause problems, then yes.you're doing this more and more on a regular basis, you can't stop, and you do it due to frustration. you also mix it with alcohol which further impairs your ability to make decisions. you're at a very high risk for contracting STIs.you're also at risk of this taking over your life to where you start sacrificing your friendships, work, hobbies, just so you can spend more and more money and time doing this. The more time you spend doing this, the more you're ensuring you'll continue to not have a girlfriend because you're not spending time on activities that will lead to getting a girlfriend.furthermore, I think you're jeopardizing your chances of ever getting a real girlfriend. if you someday get a gf and no longer have to get sex this way, well when she finds out your past 'hobby', the longer and more compulsive it turns out you have been about this 'hobby' the more disgusted or upset a gf will be and may break up with you. Also you may not be able to relate sexually to a gf because you've become so used to sex being a one-way street with the woman servicing you and it's all about you, that you'll be unable to feel satisfied by the sex in a real relationship where it's not supposed to be all about you. it sounds like you're having difficult coping with problems in your life and have found that this can make you feel better so you're hooked. It's in your best interest to find a way to deal with your problems in a way that doesn't put your future at risk.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 I take it you are asking if this is healthy. No, it's not. You are putting yourself and your sex partners at risk of a whole long list of scary and nasty sexually transmitted infections.
Go see your doctor. Get a thorough checkup and ask for help in dealing with the problem.
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 Hello,
I think unprotected is not a good thing. It is dangerous for you both.
I can understand that these prostitutes are very skilled and sex is probably fantastic. But, you need to look at the disease side of things and also your reliance on prostitutes.
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reader, pstarr +, writes (24 January 2012):
This sounds like a very dangerous practice almost an addiction if you like. My suggestion is that you seek professional help. I dont think its normal sexual appetite, and the unsafe sex practice is a very scarey thought. I would be concerned that your mother of all people would think this is appropriate maybe that is where some of this behavior is coming from. If i was you i would seek the advice of a professional this doesnt sound like a happy productive life, it seems financially and time consuming as well as a risk to your health.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2012): My Ignorant Friend of Spain- If you are having unprotected Oral Sex yet think using a condom for penatrative sex is wise- your wholly wrong. The point of protected sex is not just to prevent pregnancy but also protect against STIs. Which oral sex exposes you and your Partner to. Not wise and very poor health habits as well as careless sexual habits.
Its fast becoming your norm and it is, hopefully, not the norm of your average male.
Its a sickly lifestyle you are adopting and I worry about your health. AIDS is still a growing reality as is HIV, Herpes, Anal Warts which are re-occuring STIs and a life long infection to manage indefinitely.
Next to France and Italy, Your Country is the next populace that has a large concetration of people living with HIV
http://www.avert.org/hiv-aids-europe.htm
http://www.avert.org/genital-warts.htm
http://www.cdc.gov/std/treatment/2010/genital-warts.htm
http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm
http://www.globalherbalsupplies.com/herpes/symptoms.htm
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 Unprotected sex with a prostitute is dumb! Way dumb!!!
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