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writes: Hey I'm 15 and am feeling as low as possible.Me and my best friend have been so close for like 7 years. She's like a sister to me. We were really excited about a house party she was organising. I got all dressed up and started to have a really good time. There was this bloke that she knows I really really used to like (up until about a weeek before the party). I had told her that Ii didnt really like him anymore so I was happy just to chat with him without being nervous. I couldn't find them during the night so I decided to check the bedroom. He was sitting in his boxers with her topless on top of him.I backed out and climbed out of her bathroom window and ran all the way home. I still love her but she only left it like 48 hours before she was all over him she keeps ringing. I refuse to answer the phone becasue she thinks that she hasn't done anything wrongWhat should I do? Please help me!
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reader, fairyangel +, writes (4 December 2005):
Well, you told her that you didnt really like this guy anymore, so what is the problem? Your friend hasnt stolen your boyfriend away, so you have no cause to be so upset. Dont let this cause the two of you to be bad friends now, no guy is worth throwing away a 7 yr friendship you have with your friend.You could maybe just tell your friend, that in light of the situation, she should have just warned you first of her intentions to move in on this guy, so you would have been prepared ... not to discover them in such a compromising position together, by chance. Put it behind you, and ask your friend to be more sensitive to your feelings in future.
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