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writes: I need help.I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years and he is 11 years older than I am. Now before this year everything was good between us; we did things together and we always showed we loved each other. Now he has no time for me at all, he's always busy or going out of town for the weekend. He tells me he loves me and he wants to stay with me, but I don't believe him because of the things he does. I've tried talking to him but I feel like he brushes me off. We live together but we live separate lives. What should I do? Put up with it or go our separate ways? Reply to this Question
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (4 December 2005):
 Yor boyfriend is living a double life. Classic behaviour of someone who is having an affair, sorry to say.His words are telling you one thing, but his actions are telling you another. Trust your gut feeling on this one, you live with him, but live seperate lives... what kind of life is that to have? Dont put up with it, life is too short to be jerked around. Let him know that you are not willing to go on like this.there is so much more out there for you.
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