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anonymous
writes:my best mate regular cheats on his girlfriend everytime we go out,he sleeps with these women and get us to lie for him. his partner is a really nice girl and he treats her like shit at home and everywhere else.but the thing is shes really obsessed with him and i think she knows hes unfaithful but doesnt want to own up to it.me mate is a great bloke hes always got my back and is there when im feeling blue. but im not the kinda of person that likes to play around and i dont like havin to keep all these secerts from someone who is always kind and welcoming to me in her home. but on the other hand i have a strong loyality to a man i consider and call my 3rd brother. i dont gain anything from telling her id just lose a great mate. he knows i dont aprove of his wandering ways but i cuts me up inside to see my brother destroying another relationship by going down the path that ended his last one where 2 little kids no longer have a dad in there home.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (12 October 2008):
 you have two choices shut up and dont lie for him. or tell her the truth which one can you live with? what would the outcome be if you choose either..have a long hard think and way the pros and cons..i know what i would do i been in the situation before they will listen or they wont so thats another thing to think about..i told people what happened but because she was too in love with him i ddnt want her to turn against me but in the end i felt sick for it, she found out and told me she wishes i had told her but she said i dont think i would of believed it either.. so as i said a hard choice to make and its yours alone..which path do you want to walk the righteous one or the self righteous one..good luck with your choice aphex xx
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reader, starfairy +, writes (12 October 2008):
 Stay out of his relationship, and tell him you want to stay out of it. Tell him you'll always have his back but you don't like being in the middle of it all.
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