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writes:has anyone ever been so consumed and overwhelmed by their feelings for someone to the point where they dont know what to do anymore? I've been seeing a guy for a few months now and im falling for him so quickly and so deeply its actually scaring me. He's the first thought on my mind when I wake up and the last thing I think of before I fall asleep. I probably spend 95% of my waking hours thinking about him and as soon as I hear his voice I smile. This may sound ridiculous but we were led together today and when I was in his arms all I could think about was these feelings and I became upset (but didn't show it) because im scared im falling too quickly and what if he doesn't feel the same way. Of course id never tell him this as it would scare him off as I must sound crazy. Why am i feeling like this, am i being aa ridiculous as i think i am? What can I do to control these feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, Meg5180  +, writes (28 November 2012):
 Wow, I thought I was the only one that felt that way. I have the same issue. Every moment of the day I think of him. I would do anything for him, and I am afraid he may know that. He is the most special man I have ever met. It feels so good to be in love, But I have often wondered if I was nuts for feeling this way. I was married for 20 years and never felt like this. I say enjoy the feeling and have fun. Life is way to short!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2012): Hi I originally posted the question. Just in answer to your question, no I don't fall in love often, have only been in love once before
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reader, somewhere_between +, writes (5 November 2012):
 Do you fall in love often? If so then it`s because you are afraid of being alone and have self esteem issues. If not then you may have found the one you want to be with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2012): I wish I could help but I'm in the same situation and its worse cause im married and he's my brother in law! Im not even doing anything with him and he's the only thing on my mind! Its rough. I'd say take it his speed and be careful. Good Luck!
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