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writes:My ex was aggresive and suffered with depression and alchol problems! we had a very on off relationship and have a daughter together! Our relationship was fine until i was about 6 months preganant. Then he started smashing up the house, shouting at me and hitting me. We broke up loads of time and my mum hated him. Then the last time we broke up my mum came and collected his stuff and informed me he was moving in with her. This broke me but i sorted my life out applied to do a open uni course and started loaning a horse to keep me busy. I have not missed him for about a year and then i found out he had left my mums house and moved away, now he calls his daughter and i talk breifly to him on the phone and this has made me really miss him! I dont know how to get rid of the anger i feel towards my mother and i hate missing someone who made me so misrable! I have filled life with loads of hobbies and keep busy but im always distracted by this and its doing my head in because it was 3 years ago now that we split up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for all your advice, as it happend within about a week of posting this question he showed his true colours all over again! I dont know why i was so easily fooled, like they say a lepord never changes there spots! I was glad i stayed strong and firm with him! Thankyou for your advice, as it happens he has moved back in with my mother after he lost his job so unfortunalty he is livng in the same area again which has not helped with me moving on, but has made me renember why i wanted them both out of my life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): this has got to be a joke!!! no one can really be that stupid. he put you AND his child in danger by hitting you, he ran off with your mum (who has to be messed up in the head to do such a disgraceful thing).and now you're saying you miss him. wake up! he is a total arse. he wont change. if you let him in he will only run off with your best friend. learn your lesson
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (25 March 2011):
 You don't need him. You do need his money. You probably don't miss him, you most likely miss the IDEA of him. When you hear him on the phone you only think of the good times. But those bad times FAR FAR FAR outweigh anything nice he ever did. NEVER be with a man who would hit a woman, theyre worse than filth. It is truly disgusting and you deserve better.
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reader, MamaBear  +, writes (25 March 2011):
Oh my, what a sad saga for you. You have been betrayed by your mother and the father of your child. However, you have worked hard to get to the place in time that you now are. Remember this! Is the child's father paying child support monthly to help with expenses in raising his child? If not, get this started or do not let him be involved till then. You DO NOT need this man in your life again. Remember this!
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