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My 6 year old caught my husband and I in the bedroom having sex, what do I tell her??

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Question - (20 June 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my daughter who is 6 years old walked in the bedroom while me and her dad was having sex and said what are you doing and what i do and tell her?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008):

just say "mummies and daddys like to cuddle, the rest u will find out about in years time" lol

it could work but im not expert, lol

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (22 June 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntHey! It's FAR easier than to explain than if you were doing things with rubber, leather, whips and handcuffs (etc - I'm not an expert on the whole range of possibilities).

In which case, dusky's lock on the door is a requirement, not an option.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008):

My parents always told me that they were kissing and cuddling too, but I didn't understand why they needed to take clothes off to do this. It's only now that I understand why they looked at me funny when I asked if I could kiss and cuddle too.... LOL

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntGet a lock put on the door...... Problem solved and no more embarrassments LOL.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008):

just say the two of you were playing a game to see who gives the biggest and best hugs lol

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntSure. "We were having a cuddle. It's what married people do."

That's what I told my daughter when a similar situation arose.

Unfortunately for me, I heard my 11-year-old son whisper to his sister, "I think they were shagging."

Oh well.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

Tell her that it's a way of a husband and wife to show affection for one another. It's like a MASSIVE cuddle except only for couples who truely love each other.

That way you're not lying or going into anything that she shouldn't know details about at her age.

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