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writes:i've lost my virginity to this guy, who dumped me straight after. now hes asking for more sex even though i know he does'nt love me. i have more feelings for him than he has for me, though i dont trust him. hes aged 15 like me and i know he has already taken another girl's virginity. i want to have sex again even though i know this is wrong, what do i do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): Don't do it.
You may think you really want to, you may have urges but you will regret it when your older, The boy who took my virginity dumped me and cheated on me 2 weeks after we did it together. but you know what I did? I complained about it I called him a jerk and i started dating new guys and now this time around i have a boyfriend who really truly cares for me and really loves me, but think if i had gone crawling back to my ex do you think i would have my current boyfriend?
It will come in due time, be patient think about how you really feel about this.
Think about it.
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reader, soraya +, writes (21 June 2008):
when i was 15 i was in a situation similar to yours, i used to babysit for a woman and a lad lived next door, we started sleeping together once or twice a week when i babysat, it was fun and exciting at first but then i gradually started getting feelings for him, i told him i wanted something more to happen between us but he didnt want to,
i carried on having sex with him as i felt comfort and this was the only way i could be close to him,.all of my friends told me i was stupid and i should stop it but i just didnt want to, i knew it was wrong but i couldnt help it,by this point it had been over a year since we started having sex, then one day i decided enough was enough, by this point i had fallen in love with him and he was all i could think of.
i stopped babysitting and avoided him as much as i could.
the point im trying to make is that no matter how much people tell you not to, you know that your going 2 go and sleep with him again so my advice is to be carefull and you will know yourself one day whether it be now or in a year that you need to stop the situation you are in xxxxx soraya xx
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reader, anee +, writes (20 June 2008):
 i really dont think sleeping with his guy is a good move.
sex should have feeling and its a very close thing between two ppl. this guy clearly just wants you for sex and you deserve better then that.
nobody should use ppl like this and it will only end with you feeling low and tht is not the piont of it.
the fact he dumped you straight after you slept with him for the first time shows you that he is not good enough for you swty. you can get sum1 who loves you and tht is why you have sex - not becoz he wants 'it' rather then you.
This boy seems to have a really immature view of sex - if i were you id wait for a real guy to come along.
you should never sleep with sum1 u know will just use you for sex you - can do WAY better! xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): ok if u want to meet him then go ahed its ur choise but you really need to be very careful REMEMBER use protection you dont want to be gettin pregnant at ur age do you all my gud luk 4 you flirty xx
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 First of all : You should NOT be having sex at 15, you're underaged, the both of you are!
Second of all: Do NOT start sleeping with him again. The fact that he loved and left you should be a damn good sign that you do NOT want to get involved with a guy like that. He's only back for one reason and that's going to tear you apart in the end.
Hope this helps.
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