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writes: Hi, A few days ago my boyfriend who is 19 started talking to this 12 year old girl. They text each other very much and it reminds me when i started talking to him as just friends and that makes me very jealous. And the thing that makes me feel the worst is that he pays alot of attention to this girl. It really hurts when I see him texting her, cause it seems like she's taking my place and that she's more important to him than me. I've talked to him about it and he said that they were just friends and the girl was too young, but when it kept bothering me he asked me if i wanted that him not to talk to her anymore. At first I didn't want to answer but he kept insisting and I said yes. Then later her cousin told me he said he was dissapointed in me. I don't realy know the exact reason but she said something about me not trusting her and for making a big deal about it. Did I really make a big deal out of it or was I right to worry?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2006): Hey, I'm 14 and at 12 I was really great mates with a 17 year old. We got on well, and had I had a mobile we'd probably have texted each other. It doesn't always mean something bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2006): How can you be jealous of a 12 year old? Shouldn't you be thinking why is he texting a 12 year old in the 1st place. He is 19 years old for goodness sake.Oh please grow up. Get out of this relationship and find a man. It is obvious what is type is. Gosh this creeps me out, i'm just surprised It does not creep you out also. And as for hurting his feelings, OH PLEASE.
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reader, tux  +, writes (21 April 2006):
 i would question why a 19 year old guy would be txting a 12 year old girl. The frequency would leave me to believe something is happening. You may want to reconsider this relationship because I think he may just want someone young rather than someone to love. To me, you sound a bit young yourself. But I may be a bit exhausted and am crazy due to lack of sleep.. but even if she was older... you still have a similar problem, just more legal but you may have a cheating issue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2006): A 7 yr age gap isn't always a bad thing, but 19 to 12 is honestly just one of the creepiest things I've heard in a long time. Most 12yr olds have barely hit puberty. Your bf shouldn't be flirting with this girl, period, much less if it bothers you. My advice would be to seriously reconsider this relationship. Other people seem worried about his failure to consider your feelings. I'm more worried about his demonstrated inappropriate behavior with a child. It's gross.
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reader, shania  +, writes (20 April 2006):
 Im puzzled as to why a 19 year old man would be txting a 12 year old girl?...especially as frequently as this.If anything,he should be considering your feelings,i mean...what is the big attraction for him to txt her? I would of thought that your fella would find this 12 year old girl,too young to be on the same wavelength as him.Its hard to say whether you are making a big deal about it...but i must admit,i am getting alarm bells here.I think if you are not happy about this situation and you feel its not right,then you have the right to feel like that...if your boyfriend is going to sulk over this...then its obvious he is more concerned with this 12 year old then the consideration of your feelings?
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