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writes: Hi,I have recently split up with my boyfriend and am totally gutted. we have been together for a good few years and then he decided he didn't want to be with me anymore. i really thought we would be together forever and i can't believe this has happened. it is really difficult as we have the same friends as we were originally friends in school. it hurts so much that they are still seeing him, and i am not.i don't know what to do next. i get on well with my family and can spend time with them sometimes, all my friends are linked with him though. if he is out with them then i can't go, as i can't bear to see him.i have been considering moving away in a few months to live with a friend. this would put distance between us and i wouldn't have to share friends there with him.i would really miss my family, but i know i can't spend all my time with them. is it better to make a fresh start somewhere else, as i am not sure i can get over him if i stay where i am now.what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2007): Stayin with a friend is a very good idea. It then give you some time and space to get your heart and head together. You are not going to be bumping into him and that all helps to heal a situation. You will miss your family and friends but you are not going to be there forever. Give it a go. It could be new starts in more ways than one. You will get over him in time.
Take care and Have a Happy and Healthy new year
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reader, garret +, writes (2 January 2007):
I think that maybe going to stay with your friend for a little while might not be so bad really. If it doesnt work out, you could always move back home and start from there.
Personally if i were in your situation i would move to see what it was like, taking a risk sometimes pays off and perhaps a new start in new surroundings could be just what you need. As far as your family goes you can always come back and visit from time to time, but go out there, get some independance and you never know, it could be the best thing you'll ever end up doing! :o)
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