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writes: I have been with my bf for nearly two years but in those two years we have argued a lot, we have no trust because he cheated on me, he sometimes scares me when he gets mad. I don't feel like i used to and i want to spend my life with someone nice and someone that would never do anything to hurt me. But everytime i see a nice lad that i start to like they do something to hurt me, I met a lad and he gave me his number and was going to take me on a date but on the same night i saw him allover this lass and when i pulled him up about it he said that he still wants me to call him and he won't mess me about but i did call him and he won't answer. Im just so sick of feeling hurt what should i do please help.
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reader, blondebabygurl +, writes (1 January 2007):
 hiya
i think that you should just break up with your fella if he scares you when he gets mad you shouldnt fear of him!
a relationship is too feel special and wanted and loved and i dont think you are getting this!
some times if you wait then things are better like get to know a guy before you get with him and be sure what you want from relationship!
if yopu feel that it might hurt him to split up with him then dont care what he would feel just feel about you and what you feel and what you want!
most lads are messers but i have found a special guy and im sure your soul mate is out there some where, just you wait he will come and whip you off your feet just dont rush into anything!
gd luck and all best for 2007!! x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007): it sounds like you have already made up your mind.if you don't feel the same way you did.that is a real good sign it's time to move on.love and trust are a big part of being with someone.if that is gone there is no use hanging on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007): this is the same as me at the moment but my gf left me coz of my tempter and we aruged over silly things but i got all the blame maybe if u say to him we will go on a break for a week or so to let things cool down or dump him c if that chanegs how he c things i mean i love me ex gf alot i really do and i woudl do anything for her but it was my fault, i saw it at the wrong time and now i dont think she will have me bak try it sumit big has to happen before he can c wat he is doin
good luck tell us if it works x
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (1 January 2007):
 Your situation is pretty similar to me actually, my last two girlfriends have both turned out to be complete losers, alls great in the beginning then its just like they turn in to something horrible.
The people you are going out with, do your friends or family tell you that you could do so much better for yourself? Well they are absolutely right.
I say get rid of this bloke you have been going out with for two years, he don't sound worth all the agro. There is someone nice out there waiting for you, just be patient and it will happen.
Good luck x
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reader, DinaLeila +, writes (1 January 2007):
 If you see a pattern you don't like ... change it. Change your type maybe you're attracted to this type of man for certain reasons that I can't explain but honestly the best thing to do is change the way you see people go for people you may not go for usually and you might want to get a haircut or some new clothes to boost your confidence. This should help you find a different man who will hopefully treat you better.
Take care and keep us updated x
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